EAZy
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| | 11/01/09 at 02:00 PM | Reply with quote | #1 |
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In your opinion what's the big difference between girls in high school and those in college/uni?
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Toniy
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| | 11/01/09 at 07:22 PM | Reply with quote | #2 |
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Girls transform themselves from college to Uni...
In the UK, assuming I need to make the distinction  there's secondary school (11-16), college (17-18) and Uni (18+)...
In each one, girls... and boys for that matter, join larger social groups and can re-invent themselves... into who they feel they want to be.
There's a lot less social baggage with each move and so many folks can grow... although some stay the same... some get worse... because they're human 
Uni, generally, folks move away from home. They become more independant. They mature... that's probably the biggest difference.
The ones that become more independant and don't stay sheltered and pampered really start to grow as people, become more interesting and more attractive, I feel.
Although some of course, can still be cunts  again... they're still human.
Nothing magically changes in them for the most part I found... and Uni girls can range from 18 up to 90+ to be fair... mature students 
But sticking with the 'girls' aspect... 'high school' girls are clique-y, sheltered and a long way from self-actualising. They do, think and feel what they are led to by their peers. Earlier on it is a much smaller peer-group, thus more selective and narrow-minded... with each stage, the peer-group expands in every sense.
Uni girls become more of themselves... once they stop having to think about what other people think and expect from them (because they left those people behind in most cases)... they start to think about themselves and who they actually are. I suppose they realise that now they've 'moved out'... it's time to 'grow up'... they realise that they have to start relying on themselves... and so start to become 'reliable'... more mature... more grown up. My Mum always told me how when she moved out for the first time, she had to call home to ask how to cook sausages.
I fucking love that woman
Anyway, I work alongside girls who are in college, girls in uni, and girls with careers (with the work we share being their supplemental income).... even girls who have just finished their GCSE's... (secondary school).
The biggest difference I find with them is their emotional capacity, stability and awareness... here's an example:
I made a school/college-aged girl cry just this week with a rather insensitive (though in my opinion, witty ) comment, whereas every girl I discussed this with later... to figure out if I really had been a prick... responded with either 'you are a prick and your should apologise' from the school-aged girls, to 'she over-reacted, but it was a bit prick-ish on your part' from college (high school) girls, to 'she's a child... and that was funny' from uni aged / career girls.
(If you are interested, she was complaining about someone 'being nasty and uncaring and distant', I asked who she was talking about, She replied that it was her boyfriend, I responded matter-of-factly; "Maybe he doesn't love you anymore")... Yes I have prick-ish tendencies, and Yes I know what that could do to a 16 year old girl... I have two sisters... BUT, I don't like her particularly and it just sort of came out
So... I think that's it in a nutshell. If you want a confused, self-unaware, easily-led, emotionally unstable girl... high-school.
If you want a girl who might someday become a Woman... uni is where you'll want to start looking 
In my opinion... 
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EAZy
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| | 11/01/09 at 08:39 PM | Reply with quote | #3 |
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No thanks no high school girls.I always hated this popular-kids shit,always been distant from those popular kids.Don't know but I could sense they were 'trying to act cool' and I really can't stand that.
Also I have a feeling most girls taste in guys is somewhat different in uni.(btw in my title I ment college like in the US,so 18+ or at least I think it's like that?)
In high school it was more those ''pussies'' who could get most chicks,you know those guys you just want to hit in the face because they are acting like chicks.
Now it's like different I don't know.
Ok it's just a supposition cuz most of my high school years I wasn't really intrested in girls,having fun with my buddies was all I cared about.
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