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Matt
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    12/01/08 at 03:19 PMReply with quote#31

It seems like that movie had a pretty profound impact on you!

And it embiggens me (is that a word, eh all well) with how you're showing it.  I know I've said in the past that you really can't express yourself with words...UNLESS the words 'open' you up in a way so you can fully show your real self.

And I get the sense that that was your real self. 

And yet...at the same time I also feel a bit...I don't know...different..you could say.

You have a profound grasp on what you want in life, but for some reason I'm not sure if you're holding on to that grasp too tight.  And likewise, I don't even know if that's good or bad.

But I really like reading your progress and what else you have to offer everyone here.  I haven't read your last post yet, so maybe I'll have something to add to that! 


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Matt
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    12/01/08 at 03:27 PMReply with quote#32

regarding fear.

I can't help but notice and ask...is there a 'specific' example of fear you are referring to in your examples, or are you talking about fear in general?

Because while sometimes fear can save your life, in many instances it does not...and in some of those cases in can prevent you from experiencing life.

Is it good or bad to express fear?  Or is it better to express what you feel IN SPITE of the fear?

Sure, fear can keep you alive.  But so does food, water, and air.  Are they necessarily a bad thing?  Happy emotions keep us alive longer by reducing stress and so forth.  So what is it about fear that makes it a negative or positive force in your life?


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AlexFuckingKay
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    12/01/08 at 06:10 PMReply with quote#33

I'll get back at you tomorrow after a good nights sleep, Matt
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AlexFuckingKay
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    01/16/09 at 04:23 PMReply with quote#34

Crap. I now see that I didn't...

Still here? :-)

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Matt
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    01/20/09 at 02:34 AMReply with quote#35

Yup.




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AlexFuckingKay
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    02/05/09 at 08:10 AMReply with quote#36

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Originally Posted by Matt
regarding fear.

I can't help but notice and ask...is there a 'specific' example of fear you are referring to in your examples, or are you talking about fear in general?

Because while sometimes fear can save your life, in many instances it does not...and in some of those cases in can prevent you from experiencing life.

Is it good or bad to express fear?  Or is it better to express what you feel IN SPITE of the fear?

Sure, fear can keep you alive.  But so does food, water, and air.  Are they necessarily a bad thing?  Happy emotions keep us alive longer by reducing stress and so forth.  So what is it about fear that makes it a negative or positive force in your life?



Cool.

This seems to be such a long time ago, I am not quite able to put into words what I was feeling.

But fear in my opinion is neither good or bad. Nothing, in its purest form, is either good or bad. It's all about how you put it to use, what you do with it, that matters.


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