My Passions:

• Time and time again, my heart and soul is in Love about this thing:

I LOVE MARTIAL ARTS!!

Ever since I was 13, I am fascinated as to how our bodies can be trained to become extremely strong, whatever frame of bodies we have, and be able to use it efficiently to defeat your opponent.

And at the same time, the discipline and peace of mind that it brings to me: the techniques and training, as I have experienced, are only secondary to the lessons that it teaches:

To be of service to oneself and others, to fight without fighting, to show compassion and kindness, even to my enemies, and to protect the people that I Love, even at the cost of my own life.  

Martial Arts, no matter how much I sugarcoat the truth, is meant to take someone's life. It is a juxtaposition. But after learning and training for so long, I have realized that life is fragile, and that is exactly why it is so beautiful.

I have learnt, through Martial Arts, the sanctity of life: That each moment we breathe, we are given a chance to become better people and appreciate the goodness around us, even if it's only for a moment. 

And it is the duty of men to ALWAYS stand up and protect life's beauty and volatility.

I LOVE it so much, I am willing to travel 1.2 hours by train to the gym, train for 2 hours non-stop, and go back home again, 5 days a week. 

Honestly, whenever I put my gloves on or put on a uniform, everything around me disappears: It is just me, my body, and what is in front of me.

• Up until recently, I have realized myself:

I LOVE DANCING!!

Especially Salsa and Bachata!

What I found out about dancing is that I could feel a different energy in me: it is very soft and fluid, and at the same time, powerful.

The more I get to learn how to dance, I get to get in touch with my own body, my sexuality and sensuality.

The one thing I learned about dancing is I get to appreciate and enjoy my own body, and how it moves, and be very comfortable with it.

And because of that, I have grown comfortable touching women, without being sexually invasive, and enjoy having their body touch mine, instead of trying to take advantage of her by having her indirectly positioned so I get to be perverted (Honestly, I used to think this was a LOT!).

And because of this, I learned how to Appreciate and Love a woman's sexuality and sensuality without trying to pry open her legs, and just being able to read her and enjoy the smell, touch, and even the taste of her body.

Honestly for me, it used to be something like, "Man, I get to dance with a hot girl! I want to game this girl so she is so hooked to me." Then I would game her and then get jealous if another guy is a lot more fun or better than me. Now, it's like, "Hi, how are you? We won't be together for very long, so let's enjoy this moment for what it is. So let's have fun."

• I LOVE travelling/venturing/adventuring

Not only by means of just going to another country, spend a whole month in the city doing nothing but shopping, boozing and picking up women, but really appreciate what the place really has to offer.

 

Even now, I am far away from the city, but I live next to a park, and I walk every day just to really enjoy the nature that is around me. I walked towards the shopping centre, just to see people walk by.

 

And I remember going to another country, and I spent almost all of my days swimming in the rivers, or climbing mountains or trekking the plains of the place.

 

For me, I feel connected more to myself.

My Purpose:

I have two purposes at this very moment that defines what I want to be in the next 5 years:

• I am looking for a career that would really makes use of my experience as an Electrical Engineer, Salesman, and Recruitment Agent. After talking with my Careers Adviser, we figured out that I will make a great Management Consultant in the near future.

So after a long haul in the Engineering/Sales Industry, I have decided to quit, and now looking for employment for nearly 2 months now.

 

Yes, I was being paid well as an Engineer, but why continue if my soul dies day by day? I wasn't really enjoying myself too much.

 

And I don't know how much time my money will hold, but I will be okay.

 

At this moment, after I get to finish posting this, I will continue to look at the Account Management side of Accounting/Finance, Publishing, Marketing/Advertising, Engineering (not in the design but feasibility and quality side of things), Media/Journalism, or anything connected with working with people to become more effective with their jobs and look for ways to become dynamic and adaptive.

 

For now, I have been knocked back by a great medical research company, and Eaton Electric has decided to make cutbacks on their budget and decided not to employ me since it would cost a lot to train and develop my skills, even though they wanted me on board (PS: What the hell is the Bush Administration doing to get the US in such a dire state...?). 

 

But I am not giving up.

 

I will find work related to Management Consultancy, and I am more than willing to start from the very bottom, if need be.

 

And after I get what I want, I will work my ass in the next couple of years to become a great Management Consultant and make use of my skills for the service of others.

• I am going to experience life as much as I can.

Concerts, exhibition, dance demonstrations, travelling somewhere, enjoying my family, being in a movie, competing in a martial arts tournament, etc.

 

I want to experience as much as I can in my life, not so I could brag about it and have women fawning over me.

 

It's because I want to live a great life.

 

And I will make sure I will invite people openly if they are interested in coming along for the ride.

 

I just want my body to experience life as much as I can, since I only have one body, I might as well enjoy the hell out of it.

 

And have these experiences to connect with people, since I know that day by day, people are getting lonelier.

 

And I am more than happy to do this...

 

With or without a woman!

My Mission:

I believe for me, for now is quite simple:

 

To experience life, and be willing to share it with others.

 

Invite those who want to come and appreciate what they have to offer in return.

 

What I want for myself, I am willing to share with others.

Yes, I know, this has nothing to do with picking up women.

But it's my life and my balls!!

Not hers!!  

• My Love for Martial Arts taught me how to become calmer, more assertive and more tolerant to the inconsistencies of the things that are around me. At the same time, it taught me how to stand up for myself and others.

And when it comes to any type of fight training: whether it be preparing for an amateur boxing match, karate and kickboxing sparring meet, or learning the softer side of self defence like Wing Chun...

I'm your Man!

• I consider myself a well travelled and relatable person.

I have yet to travel to Europe and America, but I have travelled most of Asia and Australia.

 

Because of this, I can relate pretty much to any traveller (travelled with family, friends, alone and with no money, etc.), or any person that wishes to travel, or even just sharing my experiences.

 

Due to this, I can easily empathize and sympathize with people with a friendly and enthusiastic manner.

• I enjoy dancing and very comfortable with myself doing it.

I am not the best at it, but it makes me want to learn and enjoy it even more.

 

I develop akin to touching a woman comfortable without being overtly perverted.

 

And I believe that because I am learning how to be a better lead everytime, I can easily feel a woman's body and her feelings by just observing her, and so I could accommodate her better.

• Highly analytical

I just Love how things around me work and making sense of them all in a very concise and succinct manner.

• I am family man and would love to have a family someday.

Due to this, I consider myself loyal to both family and friends.

• I work hard.

I don't have a lot of natural talent nor did I learn a lot of things when I was young.

This is the reason why everything that I have and I am, I give 100% effort all the time.

"Do it well or don't do it at all!"