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Hiring a prostitute

Hammer_Bro — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 19:29:32 GMT

Hiring a prostitute would be the easiest way to get laid, but it's expensive even if I banged for just 30 mins. I've never had sex. Do you guys think losing one's virginity to a prostitute would leave a message on the subconscious mind, saying: "I can never get sex without paying for it"?

I know it would be very lame ass way to have sex for the first time! It's hopeless, I've been unable to connect with women no matter how many times I've tried and feel like I can't do it. I'm not sure...those hookers might carry some nasty STDs, too! In the worst case I'll be 100-200 euros poorer, feel very crappy from a bad experience and have AIDS, lol! Maybe I should try for a few more years to become the kind of man women are attracted to...

I might not be the only one who's pondered this kind of thing.

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Hello, newbie here

love_fist — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 02:31:55 GMT

Hi.

I just joined couple hours ago. I still don't know how the things are going in here, but i feel like home, especially after read several threads. I'm too a single, and still looking, and i'm not giving up. I know i'm still young, but i've never been with anyone and i'm still virgin. Hopefully i can get something useful here.

Nice to you all.

Forum: About Us

Day 2 Dilemma?

Francis — Mon, 26 Jul 2010 22:11:50 GMT

Hey guys,

Yesterday I got a phone number from street approach on cute Italian busker (yeaaaah first number close!!). Conversation went well but was not as flirty as I wanted it to be. Complimented her on her happy, hippy style. I don't think I came across as flirty or sexual but did take interest in her. She enjoyed talking with me anyway.

Today I text her saying it was great meeting her and chatting and ended text with an 'x'. She text back saying it was great chatting with me too and asked how I am. Her ending it with 'xxx'. We swap another text and she tells me today she was rehearsing for gig tomorrow and tonight she is going to watch her friend gig tonight. She invites me along but I respond with:

"Hey E, that sounds like fun but unfortunately I'm going training tonight and tomorrow I'm meeting an old friend. But I still would love to catch up with you for a drink and another chat. What are you doing on Wednesday evening? x"

I decline her offer for these reasons:

1. I keep reading, first date should be inviting her into your world not hers. I've been on a previous date with another girl where I was drawn into HER world and I came along on first meet to her weekly Salsa class. I don't like Salsa and can't dance it and she knew I was bored and felt bad and the had impact on date.

2. This great article
http://approachanxiety.com/2008/04/10-rules-for-the-perfect-first-date/

The thing is her friends will be there. They are not close friends as she's here alone for a month or so, so they are gig mates she met while here I assume.

To be honest I am not sure if it's a date in her mind, but I don't think she's stupid as to why I'm asking her out, right? I have tried to refrain from being too friendly in texts and made it clear when I got her number that I enjoyed our conversation and would love to meet again. But whether she knows or not I intend NOT to make our meeting 'friendly' but more flirty and see what happens. I'm not so bothered if she rejects that, I just want to try, but I need it just to be me and her.

My problem is now she's text back saying she's doing a gig on Wednesday in a pub and is inviting me!!! I feel I've dropped myself in it a bit of a mess now because it was clear I was free for Wednesday but now I don't want to meet her on that night because it's:

1. With her friends or gig mates (possibly)
2. Loud environment
3. No real control over the environment

I'm afraid I'm just going to be coming along as a male 'groupie' into her world as friend watching her gig and meeting her friends.

What do I do?

Do I go along and still ask her out another time?
Do I come up with something else and say actually I'm busy that night?

My plan was an initial drinks meet on Wednesday and then invite her to a Brazilian day festival/carnival on Saturday to come into MY world and meet my friend!

Cheers

Francis

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i continue to fuck up

aristos84 — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 11:03:59 GMT

i can get attraction but i fuck it up by small communitie old behaviors that turn women off..............
i cant take it no more i need some intimacy
i know it sound lame but its true
what can i do?

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To contact her or to not contact her?

seanyboy — Sat, 17 Jul 2010 21:11:21 GMT

Hi guys need some help. Ive been seeing this girl for a month, I get on with her amazingly well, we make each other laugh, she's sexy we have so much in common (more than any girl ive ever gone out with) im building up some powerful feelings already (I have not shared any lovey dovey moments with her and come across as 'wussy' although have told her I want to see her and she is sexy, to which she reciprocated and I am very affectionate as I love kissing her, I believe showing a girl how you feel is better than telling) anyway last week she was saying things like "im excited to see you" I stayed over at hers and she says "I'm glad you stayed" we have not had sex yet, not for lack of trying (not just to sleep with her, because I want to progress the relationship and I like her for who she is) We've fooled around but its never gone further than top half, ive tired but bin told, we're not having sex tonight and that she is picky. fine I can wait, im gunna keep trying tho and act sexual not a lame duck.

But my problem is this, even this week ive called her, she didnt pick up but she called me straight back as she was driving so not a problem? However on the phone I said Id ring talk to her about seeing her this weekend (thurs/Fri/sat) she said sounds good. Now on thurs I sent msg saying I might go out (I knew she was out) she text back at midnight when she got in saying "hey. my phone has been dead all night. just got home. fine I can believe that it happens although the cynical could call it an excuse. so next day I sent a text saying "Right, im gunna take u out tonight. I want 2 see u :-) i'll come wisk you away at 8.30. Deal?" how does this sound? ok or too needy? anyway she replied with "sounds like fun but I already have plans tonight! Do you have work today?or are you off?" this is where I get worried something is wrong as there is no counter offer to meet up I sent a reply saying "It will be fun! well tomorrow then? yes im off today, skip work and come round..." that was yesterday and so far ive heard nothing... I know girls are busy especially at weekends but I want to see her, we have such a good time when we are together so this seems out of left field. Am I looking too much into this? what should I do... wait for her to get in contact? text her again saying so/when you free? say im out would be good to meet up at some point? just a casual text about her day and not mention getting together or ask if she is free later in the week? I really like this girl guys something just seems a bit off especially from how she was last week, im confused what should I do? do I have anything to worry about?

Cheers

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How I open, get three sums, and start texting convos ....what do u do?

LifesAGame10 — Sat, 10 Jul 2010 21:00:23 GMT

1st I look at my surroundings to see what guys are hollering @ which girl and which girls are not with guys already , which is not a problem.

2nd if I get eye contact wit a girl its important to smile and when the oppurtunity arises I say " shake a hand meet a friend"

3rd when I start talkin to the girl I ask the " lil questions " where u from ? Havin fun? What do u do ? School? Etc by the end of the lil ques tions u will know if the girl is interested or not

Three sums

3somes are a very interesting thing most likely its gonna happen if ur dating a girl for a while and has a lil adventure in her , its not a bad

question to ask "if u had to kiss 1 of ur gfs who would it be" as soon as they answer the question u will know the girl is down if she doesn't 3/4: answer then she isn't down, its not bad to say other girls r cute while kickin it wit ur girl bc it let's her know she isn't the only 1 ur thi nkin about u have to keep the girl guessing at all times

A little text game....

After u get a girls number at nyt at a party, club , bar etc. , a good way to get put the ball in the girls court is to ask her to text u when she gets home safely. Regardless if she texts u or not u don't text again for a few days . When u send that text in a few days its good to say "just sayin hi , hope your week is going well" give the girl a chance to start convo wit u

Want more? Want to chat? Got any ideas? Shoot me an email at lifesagame2010@gmail.com

Or check me out at http://www.livinlifesgames.com

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Meeting new people

EAZy — Thur, 01 Jul 2010 00:47:09 GMT

I don't know if you guys have the same problem,but I always have the same problem when I meet new people.

I just give them too much credit!!!I thought about it last time and it always goes like this when I meet new people:

->First,when they are new to me,I take all there shit for granted.(I do it unconciously I guess.)
->Then,after a while I start to know them better and get a more realistic view of them and start just being myself again.As silly as it may sound I'm the leader type so at this moment there is some negative responds.
->After a while they know me better and I become the "leader"(not in a negative way of course,maybe another name would be more appropriate idk)

This all happens subconciously and most of the time I'm not even aware of it.

It just sucks that it takes so long before I finally don't care what they think about me and I'm not so much in my head anymore.

Forum: Other Topics

Some poll I found about women

EAZy — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 23:49:53 GMT

Friend send me something I found very intresting,still I don't know if it's really representative...

Questions where I would've guessed something else where those like "When I masturbate, I usually think about" or "What sexually turns you on more?""

http://www.misterpoll.com/polls/471483/results

I guess I still don't get it...

Forum: Other Topics

Personal Trainer.

Danger — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 04:39:36 GMT

I'm making a strong commitment to go to the gym.

I've never actually been committed to working out, so I'm going to hire a personal trainer to help get me started as I don't know the first thing about working out.

My question is, are there any specific things I need to look for when getting a personal trainer?

What's a good price? What should I run away from?

A friend gave me a guys email and said he offers 40 sessions for 400 dollars. Is this good? Bad?

I need help.

Forum: Health & Fitness

Schools Out

AndyM — Mon, 28 Jun 2010 00:01:02 GMT

Man, I love that Alice Cooper song....

As an occasional visitor to this board, I think its fair to say all good things seem to be coming to an end here, and that maybe this train has arrived at its destination.

I wouldnt presume to put words in Seans mouth, of course. Maybe he's working up some secret Ninja dating techniques...

...but I hope he aint, no matter how badass that would be.

Personally, I think he has taught everything one could ever hope to want to know to find a great girl, not because you got your shit handled with women, t was because you got your shit handled with you.

So, this thread is dedicated to anyone that learnt from Sean, from contributing here, good or bad. If the board was closed soon, what would be your end-of-school report?

My end of school report, after all I did, & learnt, was not a "C- could do better"

I ended up choosing not to look for a great girlfriend.

I chose to be self sufficient, & make my own way in the world, and stop saying or doing those things I did in trying to find a woman to be with.

I chose not to play the numbers game, in fact I chose not to play the game at all. It might not be the right choice, but it is a choice, mine, and mine alone, to make.

And by making this choice, by choosing not to look for a woman, I know with one thing, with absolute certainty.

I will find her.

Forum: Success Stories

Cool new Video, and there free!!!

SilverStar — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 04:50:14 GMT

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Have you seen these 3 free video's ? Best inner game ever!!! Awsome!!!

SilverStar — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 04:48:29 GMT

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Forum: Health & Fitness

Excluding the site from search engines

ledAstray — Fri, 25 Jun 2010 16:49:11 GMT

Hey Sean,

This forum is the most important source of relationship and self help advice I have. Still I don't want to tell anybody about this forum and I surely don't want anybody involved in my stories to read them. That's why I'm suggesting to exclude the forum from search engines. I just tried to google thread titles and it works. I'm not sure if full text search is possible, but maybe one day it will.

What do you say? Do you want to make the forum more private or would you rather have it open and free to everyone?

Forum: About Us

Why do I always have to call people and almost never the other way around?

Hammer_Bro — Thur, 24 Jun 2010 15:28:16 GMT

It's 99 % of the time me who calls other people to hang out or do whatever. There's only one guy who calls me. Also, people rarely comment about anything on Facebook and seldomly start talking on MSN Messenger. This must be because:

1) I'm not that cool, fun and interesting to be around.

2) Some other reason I've never thought of?

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The First Step.

Danger — Thur, 24 Jun 2010 11:50:49 GMT

I'm 27.

I'm an INTJ.

I work a 12 hour shift at night; Monday through Thursday, some times Friday,

I spend two hours a day meditating.

On Fridays I take guitar lessons.

I spend my weekends practicing, reading, and doing all of the every-day-bull-shit that I didn't have time to do through my week.

I can make any one laugh(or cry), listen well, and been told I give great advice.

In fact, I'm the most bad ass guy I know(except for you guys of course).

I find small talk to be difficult for me, to the point it's frustrating, I just don't get it.

I'm very introverted. I end up spending most of my days alone.

I have quite a few girl friends, but that's exactly what they are, friends.

I meet them through friends, or online like okcupid.

I usually develop a bond with them through text messaging.

I work night shift, and they text me when they can't sleep, bored, lonely, what ever,

because they know I am awake. They are good friends, often they start looking for

me when they haven't heard from me in a few days.

I get the age old line from all these girls. " I wish I could meet a guy who were a man

like you are. "

Yet every time I try to escalate things further with these girls it's like the hunter

spooks the deer; a classic blunder.

They are great women, I love having them as friends.

But Jesus, I need intimacy; bluntly, I want to fuck.

FACT:

Like a preacher needs pain,

Like a needle needs a vein.

A guy needs to get laid.

I am lost, confused, lonely, and frustrated; to the point I have considered cutting all

these people from my life to gain perspective on things.

My name is Danger, and I have no idea how to get my shit together.

Forum: Confessions